Esei: Cuti Persekolahan saya

Holidays over n im back to work again..see the counter? 65 days till my wedding.hmm..lots of drama diz weekend but still, managed to survive, tho unsolved still..but lets juz focus on the holiday k.

these were only like half of the stuff we brought..

Last weekend, my family n cik’s family went to santubong beach resort for a little retreat..two cars with lots of fud pack for th only one nite stay..we bookd 2 queen deluxe room..which were really spacious..two big sized bed which fits 6 of us perfectly (me, rosha, tasha, dila, nana n mak).. while the other rum for odi, azri n both cik. As everyone were jumping on the bed like monkeys when they arrived, I cudnt take any pic of the rum..but still, u guys can check it out at the link I gave in my previous post..

stayed at the 1st 2 rooms..

After we unpack our things, tukar our baju, off we go to the swimming pool. N mind u, it was still 3 oclock at that time.so sakai…but hey, the main objective is to have fum remember?and it was fun.berendam (cant call it swimming coz technically, I cant swim) for an hour..nana tasha n odi were the one who can actually swim..nana ‘s really proud wif her terjun botol..we perasan the pool guard jeling2 when she did that coz its actually really dangerous to do it in public pool..but as we were swimming in the deepest part of the pool, so there were no ppl at the area excep us..

swimming pool..

Then, later at 4, we went back to the room..took our shower n makan…cik cooked ayam goreng..n we were hungry n need energy for d nex activity…THE BEACH…

THE BEACH

Went to the beach n the kite-flying was the nex agenda..i luv kites..only brought the small ones tho coz its really windy at the beach n I dnt think I can manage the big one there..

see my kites??

after flying it, askd azri to jaga n startd burying nana under the sands..that girl really cant lay down still..she kept on giggling n caused the pasir bed to pecah..so troublesome especially during the boobs-constructing part…

nana being pain in the ass..

finally..her so-called full size boobs..haha

Later, lots of water splashing going on..initially, we dnt wan to get ourself wet in d sea until nana dragd me into the water n got me all wet..then the fun began when we startd dragging each other n all became wet..stayed there until sunset n back to the room..

sunset n we r happy like crazy siao siao

Nite time nothing happen bcoz everyone was too tired to do anything…so end up watching tvn snooze on…….

Nex morning, went for breakfast..n breakfast at santubong really lauya..they served beras lemak (I calld it beras lemak coz the nasi were so keras u can actually think dat its beras), mee laksa n porridge..other than dat, bread, those koko krunch etc, fruits…the cereal was fine but the kaya taste basik, the butter was still frozen, the watermelon was like a day-old..the juice wasn’t cold...hmmm..rezeki rezeki…

iyek2...beras lomak..

Went back to the room, change n pool again..swim swim..back to room mandi..kemas kemas then back home…

I had fun..managed to do everything I intended to do except the seafood part..actually we ate seafood the nite before..so no mood to eat seafood anymo..till then……;p

Take a Break...

I am tired preparing for my wedding..its getting nearer n nearer…and im getting crazier…its time for me to hv a lil time out..i am planning for a family vacation diz weekend…guess werrr???Santubong beach resort…cheapskate..haha..at least cheaper than damai puri..that place sooo expensive one..we do diz annually..so diz year we dcide to do it while im still bujang..hmm..they say ppl change after getting married n my sis is scared that im losing the ‘crazy sister’ factor when im becoming sumone’s wifey later…

Here’s a list of things that I wan to do diz weekend:

1. swim in the pool
2. swim in the sea
3. hours in bath tub
4. play kite (nana actually banned me from playing after I get married bcoz she said married girls shud not play kite n she cant handle the sight watching her married sister running crazily to fly the kite….)
6. watch sunset at santubong beach
8. eat seafood, seafood n more seafood..
9. play under the sun without getting sun burn (banana boat, banana boat, banana boat help)
half-buried nana under the sand build with full size boobs…(come on adek, u r the smallest n easiest to get buried)

so, check out d place by clicking here…..

so santubong…here I comeeeee…

p/s: I cant swim but I can still float…still the undeniable me

Ehem ehem..kursus pra pernikahan

Last week i went to Majlis Agama Islam Sarawak to attend my kursus kawen..or kursus pra pernikahan (the more canggih n sfistikated version of saying it la)..As u all kno, in order to get married here in kuching, u hv to at least, sit n listen to several session of wedding-related topics for 2 days for u to get a cerificate that can qualify u to be a wife..there is actually a simpler way of getting ur self out of it which is going thru interview..this option is only available in sarawak as in other states, U HV TO ATTEND KURSUS..i have opt for this option before but HE was scared that ppl might get misunderstood of us going thru interview prior getting married coz usually, it isnt a gud thing to attend interview as it sound so 'rushing'to get married (if u kno wut i mean).well, he n his myths..

It was really sweet of HIM to come down to kuching from miri to attend it wif me, tho we can actually attend the kursus anywer we want separately coz the modules are actually the same anywer. but i cant stand the fact that i hv to sit alone wif 149 more strangers listening to wut i tot initially, was going to be a very dull session of ceramahs..But to my surprise, i actually enjoy it!!

The modules were ranged from the basics of Islam such as Aqidah, ibadah to procedures of getting married to filing divorce (isnt it ironic to study about how to get divorce when we initialy came to listen on how to be happy during marriage?) and psycological issues such as stress management, human relations and also resource management (which is basically how to spend ur time n money during courtship) and last but not least, health (i found lots of interesting facts here..hiks)

Here i listed a few facts that are interesting enuff to share:
1. Sarawakians like to marry foreigners from 1. Indonesia 2. New Zealands & Australia 3. African Nations

2. There is actually a couple who divorce because of the way the wife cooked ayam goreng wasnt similar to the way her mother in law's style (the husband was an african)

3. Girls...plzzz..we really hv to learn the real deal of mandi hadas coz after u get married u ll b surprise on where u really hv to sucikan..(diz really freaks me out)..

4. Kursus kawen in kuching is still FOC..unlike in other parts of the country, u hv to pay for like rm60?? n we still hv free food..:)

5. i am one of the oldest person among the girls who attend the kursus..believe it or not, during my session, the average age of girls attending kursus is 19-22..n im 25!!anak dara tua ke aku???

It was really interesting coz the way the ustaz n ustazah deliver the kursus was really gud..not all la..but most delivered well. i think they manage to keep us awake wf interesting stories of ppl getting married n also lame jokes about sx (which annoyed me the most coz there wsa diz one guy who terkekek-kekek tetak everytime the ustaz mention about sx..kesian la tunang ko)..
So..a step nearer to get married..lots of forms to fill n sijil to be fotostat..hmmm...i hate doing these alone....

Note: Angah, aku berjaya pasang tudung aku dengan lengkapnya dan membuktikan yang kepala aku bukan lah senget seperti yang diwar-warkan sebelum ni..wakaka..

Wut do i hv to do to make u happy???

i nd to decide entertainment for my guest during the reception...i dnt wanna be typical me..or creating my wedding day into Anugerah Juara Lagu..there are a few types of entertainment dat are always chosen during reception...

1. The Gamelan



Gamelan is a bunch of guys in batik sambil berkemban knocking to little xylophones playing mistical tunes...hehe..not all gamelan players berkemban like dat..hiks..i wish i can have a gamelan group playing at my wedding using kemban kain batik..n im gonna choose hunks wif 6 pack for my guest's eye candy..wakaka..gamelan in kuching costs about RM1000 per session..if u wanna opt for cheaper one, use gamelan played from the cassette..haha..zaman kaset..ok ok...played from cd..

2. Ever-so-famous zapin



Zapin is old style clubbing for the 40s..fast tunes wif mind boggling steps..best perform by kids..i lurve zapin especially those from johor..we hv our own zapin in sarawak but the steps i found a bit more subtle than the wests..Zapin is quite cheap for use..its around RM300-RM400 per session regardless the number of dancers..

3. Old timer karaoke



Diz one really hv to be kful..u mau end up having a singer like mak tiri zoela or untapped talent like mama rina..so do ur research here on who is going to sing for ur reception.u wudnt want to hv sumine singing like ahpek at chinese wedding who sumtimes doesnt seem to end his vibrato (ewahhh...hasil menonton akademi fantasia)..everything was sand 'long pau au au au au au ....' <---vibrato kat ujung..ive done my research n a pair of singer only cost u RM150 to sing any lagu of ur choice..

4. Or u can opt for kugiran serba boleyyyy



This one is fine too..excep sumtimes i always find they dnt practice enuff n u'll find them having wrong notes played here n there...hmmm..n its always playing lagu 'selamat pengantin baru'..well...i guess its ok..anggap la its the cheaper version of having paramore playing on ur wedding day..

So dats the typical entertainment if u go to a malay wedding in kuching..so wut do i really wan for entertainment??

1. Perhaps joget lambak ala ning



i really need to think outside the box on how to incorporate joget lambak into my wedding...cant really imagine my aunts n uncles loosing up to joget tunes..hiks..

2. Anuar Zain....:)



Come on guys...need i say more???im going to melt everyone's heart inside the dewan...:p

3. Wut about bergendang???

i hv no pic of diz but basically...(juz a malaysian way to show dat we really kno diz subject matter..hehe) it is a bunch of women playing gendang and singing pantun while the guys show their lame move n replying the women's pantun..get it?

4. Or even opera singer??



Haha..gotta be joking. i can already sense the old people saying 'apa nama dilagu nya ya jahhhh'...hiks (Jah is a tipikal malay name for women.i can assure u to go to any kampung in malaysia n u will b sure to find at least one 'jah' liviing there..hehe


5. Or head banging to Good Charlotte..



Now i hv to prepare ambulance..just in case..terkejut dgr bunyi bass dak madden bros..ooo mak kaaauuuu!!!

6. Or Abg Bil in d houseeee...lu pikir la sendiri



Imagine a wedding wif nabil of raja lawak....muahahahahaha...

Yeah yeah...im getting nowhere..but i still hv to decide tho..