Ehem ehem..kursus pra pernikahan

Last week i went to Majlis Agama Islam Sarawak to attend my kursus kawen..or kursus pra pernikahan (the more canggih n sfistikated version of saying it la)..As u all kno, in order to get married here in kuching, u hv to at least, sit n listen to several session of wedding-related topics for 2 days for u to get a cerificate that can qualify u to be a wife..there is actually a simpler way of getting ur self out of it which is going thru interview..this option is only available in sarawak as in other states, U HV TO ATTEND KURSUS..i have opt for this option before but HE was scared that ppl might get misunderstood of us going thru interview prior getting married coz usually, it isnt a gud thing to attend interview as it sound so 'rushing'to get married (if u kno wut i mean).well, he n his myths..

It was really sweet of HIM to come down to kuching from miri to attend it wif me, tho we can actually attend the kursus anywer we want separately coz the modules are actually the same anywer. but i cant stand the fact that i hv to sit alone wif 149 more strangers listening to wut i tot initially, was going to be a very dull session of ceramahs..But to my surprise, i actually enjoy it!!

The modules were ranged from the basics of Islam such as Aqidah, ibadah to procedures of getting married to filing divorce (isnt it ironic to study about how to get divorce when we initialy came to listen on how to be happy during marriage?) and psycological issues such as stress management, human relations and also resource management (which is basically how to spend ur time n money during courtship) and last but not least, health (i found lots of interesting facts here..hiks)

Here i listed a few facts that are interesting enuff to share:
1. Sarawakians like to marry foreigners from 1. Indonesia 2. New Zealands & Australia 3. African Nations

2. There is actually a couple who divorce because of the way the wife cooked ayam goreng wasnt similar to the way her mother in law's style (the husband was an african)

3. Girls...plzzz..we really hv to learn the real deal of mandi hadas coz after u get married u ll b surprise on where u really hv to sucikan..(diz really freaks me out)..

4. Kursus kawen in kuching is still FOC..unlike in other parts of the country, u hv to pay for like rm60?? n we still hv free food..:)

5. i am one of the oldest person among the girls who attend the kursus..believe it or not, during my session, the average age of girls attending kursus is 19-22..n im 25!!anak dara tua ke aku???

It was really interesting coz the way the ustaz n ustazah deliver the kursus was really gud..not all la..but most delivered well. i think they manage to keep us awake wf interesting stories of ppl getting married n also lame jokes about sx (which annoyed me the most coz there wsa diz one guy who terkekek-kekek tetak everytime the ustaz mention about sx..kesian la tunang ko)..
So..a step nearer to get married..lots of forms to fill n sijil to be fotostat..hmmm...i hate doing these alone....

Note: Angah, aku berjaya pasang tudung aku dengan lengkapnya dan membuktikan yang kepala aku bukan lah senget seperti yang diwar-warkan sebelum ni..wakaka..